In His Own Words
About him
My friends would probably say I’m enthusiastic, positive, charismatic, and disciplined. I’m someone who loves to make the most out of life, and I bring that energy into everything I do.
I’m all about staying productive and pursuing my passions. Whether it’s writing books, playing music, or simply enjoying a great meal, I find joy in the things that fuel my creativity and soul. I’m a big fan of good food (who isn’t?) and love exploring new flavors.
Rainy days and cold weather aren’t my thing; unless it’s in the form of ice cream, of course! I also can’t stand the smell of cigarettes, so I tend to steer clear of smoky environments.
When I’m not busy writing or composing music, you’ll likely find me with a good book in hand or relaxing with some tunes. Music is a huge part of my life, both listening to it and creating it. It’s my way of unwinding and expressing myself.
Now that my two children are grown and living on their own, I’m focused on building the next chapter of my life. I’m someone who believes in working toward the future while still savoring the present. I’m looking for someone who shares that same balance of ambition and appreciation for the little things.
About his ideal match
I’m hoping to connect with someone who’s positive, kind, and shares a love for creativity and good food. If you enjoy deep conversations, great music, and maybe even a spontaneous adventure or two, we might just click. Let’s see where this journey takes us!
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Eastleigh, Hampshire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
46 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 7" (170cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Black | |
Eye colour: |
Black | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/Caribbean descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French; German; Spanish; Other | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 10 miles of postcode district SO18 (Southampton) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
25 - 40 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
English; French; Spanish | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Smart (It's all about quality) |
Hair style: |
Short; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I've got 20/20 vision |
Facial hair: |
I have a goatee |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Dance / Disco; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; World |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I don't have a television |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Documentary; Horror; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Music; Reading; Writing books |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Chess; Rock climbing; Table Tennis; Volleyball |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm seeing someone, but not exclusively |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I don't like pets |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Power; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Retirement plans: |
Seeing the world in style |
Feelings about using Reader's Digest Dating: |
Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |